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I Want to Feel Sexy 24/7. Do You?

February 21, 2014
I Want to Feel Sexy 24/7. Do You?

I want to radiate joy and vibrancy. Every day. I want to choose love over fear. In every action. I want to dance the playful path through life. No matter what obstacles I encounter or emotions I surf. I want that for you too. When women connect to their sexy they glow. Deep yearnings become clear. Big dreams feel ‘delightfully doable.’ Life becomes richer and more fulfilling. The secret to living life the I HEART Sexy way is knowing how to plug-in to your sexy self. To discover who she is, what she adores, what ignites her:  sensually, sensationally, sexually, passionately, erotically, playfully… . I Thought I Knew Everything About My Siren For eight years I’ve explored every aspect of my sexy self. Multiple times. I know her music, color, clothing, texture and environment preferences, favorite dance moves and so much more. I thought I knew every spark, every possible way to ignite this sassy siren residing in me. I knew I’d grow and evolve, just figured big leaps were behind me and what was left would be minor tinkering. Last summer I worked intensely on a project. I took plenty of play breaks dancing on the beach, lunching with girlfriends

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What is Sexy? Rant transforms into an “I’m Too Sexy” Romp

February 18, 2014
What is Sexy? Rant transforms into an “I’m Too Sexy” Romp

Beaming them with the most infectious and sexiest curve ever—a smile ~ LC Ho . Bliss on Baker Beach Despite the ‘no show’ glow from the rising sun and setting moon Saturday’s dance session was full of magic moments. One of the highlights was Radiate by Jack Johnson filling my toes with the tickle of champagne bubbles. I tugged off my socks, then ambled toward SF Bay, leaving trailing tracks in the sand. At the water’s edge, the waves and I played a toe tapping game. And I radiated my joy. Take a peek For those who’s hunt for music is as insatiable as mine, here’s the entire Gold + Infinite = Fun playlist on Spotify. Back home after showering, I dressed in a leopard pencil skirt and teal curve-hugging top because I felt too hot and sexy to wear puttering-around-the-house t-shirt and pants. . I Stumbled into Seriousness + Stayed Too Long Friday’s Valentine’s Day post calling for women-only dance as a way to heal our culture upset several fellow pole dance bloggers, in part, because they believed it implied that men alone are to blame for violence against women. That wasn’t my intention. I actually believe women-only dance is

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As a Culture We Need Women-Only Dance

February 14, 2014
As a Culture We Need Women-Only Dance

As long as we live in a culture that… As long as we live in a culture that tolerates violence against women, and dominance of any kind, over partnership we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that blames victims, and holds them responsible for crimes committed against them, we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values productivity, efficiency and work over beingness + presence + play we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values stoicism and strength over emotion + vulnerability we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values spirituality over nature we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values logic and rationality over intuition we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values competition and independence over cooperation + connection we need women-only dance. As long as we live in a culture that values masculine over feminine. And by association men over women, we need women-only dance. Particularly women-only pole, sensual and conscious dance. As women, we need dance that honors + celebrates the feminine—the

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Dancing in the Rain in the Grass on Day 39 of Dance 365

February 10, 2014
Dancing in the Rain in the Grass on Day 39 of Dance 365

A friend asked me to dance with her on the beach. In the rain. I’ve done it before and was happy to do it again. Last time I realized I liked being out in the rain if I was dressed for it and didn’t have to deal with an umbrella! I adored the sound of the rain on my hood. The morning we were supposed to meet, my husband turned on the TV to a reporter on the beach in the pouring rain and 18 mile-an-hour winds advising drivers stay home if they didn’t have to be out. Hubby concluded with, “He looked miserable!” To stay safe because of the slippery roads, my friend and I chose to have a virtual dance date instead. She in her living room. Me under the tree that had been calling me to dance under it for months. . . Dancing in the Rain in Clover (Highlights) Flow – Sade Candycoatedwaterdrops – Plumb Rain – Madonna Rainbow – Elisa Raincoat – Kelly Sweet Double Rainbow – Katy Perry Come Rain or Come Shine – Etta James What The Water Gave Me – Florence + The Machine Somewhere Over The Rainbow/What A Wonderful World –

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25 More Sexy Pole Dance Songs for Valentine’s Day

February 7, 2014
25 More Sexy Pole Dance Songs for Valentine’s Day

Insatiable Desire for Music I’ve been swirling my hips for more than a decade. And spinning around a pole for almost nine. I have a list of 60 ‘go-to’ sensual dance songs on my iphone to ensure I have a tune ready to dance at a moment’s notice for any mood or occasion. Still, I hunt for new-to-me music. We dancers have an insatiable appetite for songs that make our souls sing and our bodies undulate & boogie. A recent discovery is Neva Give Up by Mishka. I just can’t stop dancing to it at home, on the beach, in the dark studio… Every song can be magic to the right woman. For example, I once warmed up to American Pie by Don Mclean. It did nothing for me or my sexy soul, but the spotlight dancer swooned. Then there are those tunes that light fiery magic in (nearly) every woman. . 25 Sexy ‘Love’ Songs If you’re looking for a sexy song for a Valentine’s Day treat for a special someone, here are 25 more sexy pole (or lap) dance songs that fall into this latter category. Each has a sexy vibe that lures a lady in. They’re rich

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